It feels odd to talk about easy yokes and JUSTICE together.
Shouldn’t we affirm the warm, fuzzies first? Jesus will love you no matter what, that he’s a friend, a Father, a Mother, a Spirit, an everything?
Oh, all that is true.
But I will be honest: I don’t think there’s warm fuzzies without justice. I don’t think there’s freedom and peace without a reckoning.
If God does not hold our betrayals in his hands and reckon with them, we aren’t safe enough for freedom.
And that means we need to talk about justice first.
Over and over, I have tried to avoid a reckoning.
I’ve written before about the explosion I experienced in my first serious go of therapy. I came to my therapist with a tale of all the spiritual things wrong with me. I quoted Romans when she asked me how I was feeling.
My therapist (who had seen me before with my parents) told me to stop spiritualizing my problems, told me she thought I was depressed, and that depression was anger turned inwards. Then she leaned forward and asked me a question:
Who are you angry at?
That question blew everything apart. Not just my relationship to my parents. It exposed my massive, volcanic anger towards God Himself.
I was angry that my little paper-plate Christian mask hadn’t kept me from being angry at my parents. I was angry God hadn’t replaced my family with a functional one. I was angry God not stopped me from a moronic unawareness of my emotions. I was angry being incredibly good had not healed anything inside me.
In the months that followed, I wondered if Jesus had anything to say to the real state of my heart.
If he didn’t—if he was mere spackle and polish for crumbling insides, then I was done.
We have to talk about justice in faith, because there’s no peace, freedom, or joy in God unless we deal with our anger. Anger means we have been wronged. Anger means we have been hurt.
Blessedly, anger is like a giant signpost pointing at reality.
Or: maybe we’ve been the oppressors. Maybe we’re complicit in smashing others’ hopes. Maybe we’ve hardened our hearts against compassion.
How can there be any peace with our hearts in that condition?
Justice is the pointed finger, the sword, the steady eye that doesn’t blink. Justice is the assurance that Jesus doesn’t just care but does something about wrongdoing. Justice is the discipline no more business as usual.
Unless Jesus has something to say to those of us betrayed by the church, excluded from Scripture, systematically marginalized, unjustly imprisoned, killed without reason, condescended to, abused, gas-lighted, snickered at, and ignored, there is no peace.
Unless we have justice, some sense that all will be well, Jesus is just niceness. He has no power for what ails us.
Today I want to ask you: who are you angry at?
Who is angry at you?
Do you believe Jesus has anything to say about that? Have you waved them away with Christianized Jedi mind-tricks? Have you really felt your grief and guilt and anger and bewilderment about the state of your soul?
Someone with an easy yoke of justice stays put when business as usual explodes. That person doesn’t run away or attempt to fix things. Instead, they admit. They confess. They hold still before the unblinking eye.
They confess that they are enraged at God Almighty.
They confess their murderous thoughts.
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I admit it: None of this sounds easy.
Oh, but it is. It is easier than the alternative.
If God is the God of justice, then we can stop trying. Stop trying to hide, or shame ourselves, or explain our panic attacks away. If God knows and does something about injustice, then we can come out now, with our hands up. We can throw ourselves at his feet and trust we are safe.
No more mad scrambling to cover ourselves or our shame.
Yes, yes, the easiest things—the surrendering—are always the hardest.
But dear, sweet Jesus: it’s always easier to give up the ghost.
For the rest of the posts in this easy-yoke faith series, click here.
Image credit: Ivan Malkin
Johanna
Oof. I wasn’t sure I wanted to read this one…but as usual I’m so glad I did. For so long I felt defined by the anger that was always simmering just below the surface. I tried to hide it because it wasn’t nice. I tried to at least shift it to safer targets (grr…road construction) because I didn’t dare admit to myself who I was really angry at. And all the anger was covering over a deep well of pain I didn’t believe I had a right to feel. Sometimes it seems like it would be easier to cover it with something shiny and pretend it’s not there…but I’m learning to see that my anger points to a reality that needs to be reckoned with. Without that reckoning there is no peace or freedom. Only with a just God can I trust that I am safe and stop trying to hide.
Heather Caliri
“covering over a deep well of pain I didn’t believe I had a right to feel” Oh, yes. This.
And let me say, that I think it’s okay that the reckoning comes when you are ready. From when I first admitting my anger to when I was really mature, compassionate, and wise enough to handle it–more than fifteen years. God will lead you to it in good time, and it’s not something you have to force yourself into. Be kind with yourself, okay?
And thanks with sticking with my posts. I’ve been a little brimstone lately 🙂
Johanna
Mmm yes, that’s an important point. It’s not up to me to force the reckoning before I’m ready. I’m also finding that it sometimes it comes in layers. I think sometimes, especially if I’ve been running from a reckoning for a long time, there is just too much tangled up in it for me to handle all at once. Maybe each progressive layer of reckoning develops the maturity I will need for the next. Last year I really faced some stuff for the first time…and now it’s back. But what’s coming up now is bigger and deeper than what I was facing then. At the time I wouldn’t have been ready for all of this, but what I faced then helped me grow into another layer of reckoning. It helped me develop the compassion and wisdom and trust I need now.
Heather Caliri
Wow, I love your description of this, Johanna. That very much tallies with my experience. The reckonings are brutal, but they straighten your spine and make you into a warrior.
Amanda Louise Evans
This series is just what I needed right now!! I can barely stop myself from posting every single one to my facebook page. Thank you for being brave enough to point the way to the easy yoke. (I always want to write “yolk” lol.)
Heather Caliri
I will NOT complain if you share everything to FB 🙂
We all are tripping on eggs in this series–yolk just stumbles out of our typing fingers 😉